Thursday, January 29, 2009

6 Months = 26 Weeks...



Well, I yet again write to you from snow-covered New England… currently, Rachel is sitting on a patio in downtown Santa Cruz eating Mexican food with her dad. I can’t even begin to explain my jealousy! After an extended trip yesterday, due to delays and lovely snow storm related travel, Rachel arrived safely in San Jose around 9:30pm (i.e. 12:30am our time)- my poor wife was exhausted and my daughter, Lucy, was expressing her discontent with flying. Apparently, Lucy was kicking up a storm and generally acting unhappy immediately following the air travel. Picky little girl already –or- should I say “She knows what she likes?”

This is week 26, thus, we’re officially into month six of Rachel’s pregnancy. Approximately 14 weeks to go! WOO HOO! What to say about the recent pregnancy developments? Well, we posted this past month’s ultrasound photos below and Rachel is scheduled to have another one on February 19th, 2009 @ 8:30am- we’ve invited my grandparents to join us for the appointment. Lucy continues to develop as expected and is one healthy little girl!

Here’s what “What to Expect” says about Lucy’s development:

Lucy’s eyes — which have been closed for the past few months (so that the retina, the part of the eye that allows images to come into focus, could develop) — are beginning to open. What this means is that she is able to see what's going on now (unfortunately the view in Rachel’s uterus isn't all that exciting). The iris, the colored part of the eye, still doesn't have much pigmentation (that'll fill in over the next month or two), so it's too early to start guessing her eye color (Rachel has blue eyes and Steven has brown eyes). Even the color she is be born with might not be the permanent shade; so we may be kept guessing until she is close to six months old.

Lucy’s brain-wave activity is kicking in at this stage in fetal development, which means she can not only hear noises but can now also respond to them. Not in so many words, of course, but with an increase in pulse rate or activity. And talking about activity, at your her current height and weight (about nine inches tall and two pounds), and at the rate she is growing, she will soon be feeling a little cramped in Rachel’s uterus. Not to worry, there's still plenty of room for her to grow. It just means our little gymnast will have less room for somersaults, cartwheels, and other Olympic feats.

What else can I tell you this week? Well, Rachel’s sister and mother are in the process of planning our baby shower; looks like it will occur in Vermont on April 4th, 2009- but don’t forget to bring presents for me because it’s the day before my birthday! Hee hee hee! Just kidding! We’re definitely in the pre-planning stages of this event, but we will keep people posted. I ordered cookie cutters (see above & below) in the shape of a baby bottle and a baby carriage so we can share my grandma’s delicious sugar cookies with our guests! Rachel and I are also in the early phase of scheduling birthing classes and tours of the birthing center at our hospital.

Needless to say, everything is falling into place and our dreams of beginning our family are becoming a not-so-far-off reality!

Monday, January 19, 2009

There's an alien in Rachel's belly!

Today begins week # 25...

Good morning folks. I thought I would start the week off with some new ultrasound photos. Not only can we feel Lucy kicking in Rachel's belly, but last night while we were watching television, I could actually see Lucy moving around in Rachel's belly- it was AMAZING!

Happy Monday & I hope you enjoy the new photos of our beautiful little girl. Cheers to an early spring and no more snow!
WOO HOO!




Lucy says HELLO!


CHEESE!



A profile photo of our beautiful little princess...

Friday, January 16, 2009

24 Weeks Down, Approximately 16 to Go!

As many of you know, Rachel and I are really bad at keeping secrets. But, we haven’t openly discussed an issue that we discovered during our twenty week ultrasound that occurred on December 22nd, 2008. Obviously, that is the anatomy scan where we found out that the “Masson baby” was a girl, but we also found out stressful news at that time.

One of the important tasks of the technician during the anatomy scan is to scan Lucy’s umbilical cord for the presence of three vessels: one vein (which carries oxygen and nutrients from Rachel to Lucy) and two arteries (which shuttle the waste back to Rachel, to be processed and disposed of by her kidneys). Instead of those three vessels, Lucy’s cord has only two: one vein and one artery. Two-vessel cords — also known as single umbilical artery (SUA) — occurs in 1% of single baby pregnancies and 5% of twin and multiple pregnancies. Researchers don't quite know what causes SUA, though they theorize that the second artery disappears at some point during early pregnancy.

You’re wondering “What does this all mean?” and “Is Lucy okay?” Well, let me explain more… and Yes, Lucy is okay- she’s healthy and developing as expected. BREATHE!

Upon returning home that day, of course, we immediately got on the internet to research our little two vessel cord and telephoned both Kim (who’s in nursing school and the mom of beautiful ‘premie’ twins who are now 3years old) and Sandy (one of my closest friends who is currently finishing her degree to become a Physician’s Assistant). Despite the midwife’s reassurance and numerous verbal prompts to “not worry”- Rachel and I were a WRECK! During our research, we found out that two vessel cords is the most common malformation of the umbilical cord. It does not necessarily pose a risk to Rachel or Lucy as an umbilical cord with just one artery is sufficient to support a pregnancy to term. However, SUA does increase your Lucy’s risk for certain birth defects.

Still, we were not convinced and we were nervous about the outcome and concerned about Lucy’s well-being.

But, all of the websites mentioned that the “practitioner” (i.e. our widwife) would order additional testing to rule out chromosomal and/ or birth defects, including a low birth weight, heart defects, gastrointestinal tract abnormalities, and problems with the central nervous system. Lucy’s respiratory system, urinary tract, and musculoskeletal system could also be affected. Luckily, Rachel and I had already undergone the additional testing that is common to order, the “quad screen” and the AFP (alpha-fetoprotein test). And, even more, both tests came back “normal” with no indications that Lucy was at a higher risk for chromosomal or birth defects. Thus, the next preventative measure was to go to Baystate Health (Springfield, Ma) to The Wesson Women and Infants' Unit for another “phase II” ultrasound. The only difference between an ultrasound in Greenfield at Baystate Franklin Medical versus one in Springfield is that it is monitored and reviewed by a Perinatologist on-sight. We had the pleasure of meeting Dr. Michael P. Plevyak, who was very knowledgeable and helped relieve all anxieties we had prior to the appointment.


A lengthy ultrasound revealed that there weren’t any birth defects, her heart and organs were developed as expected, and he was able to conclude that Lucy was 100% healthy. In general, he would also order an echo. but Lucy was cooperative during the exam and he was able to get clear photos of her healthy little heart right there and then. Additionally, he was able to answer questions that we had regarding how the gastric bypass surgery affects Lucy’s nutritional intake and other concerns we had prior to our meeting. Overall, we were pleased with our experience and totally relieved! Following our appointment, Rachel and I went to Ruby Tuesday’s for a nibble and then we headed to Babies R Us to register.


I promise to post more pictures soon. Until then, be well, stay warm, and read some good books- like the one below!!!!

Saturday, January 10, 2009

January 10th, 2009

Things have been emotionally difficult around here this week, as we had to have Riley "put to sleep." It was a difficult decision, but we feel like it was the right decision.

The joy we feel, as Lucy's due date approaches, helps us keep things in perspective. Lucy is constantly on the move, using Rachel's belly as a spring-board for acrobatics. Even I have been able to feel this little gymnast at work. Many people have asked for 2 things... 1) our baby "theme"; and 2) to see Rachel's belly... Here's some pictures of Rachel & the baby's nursery.

Welcome to week # 23...

Rachel's Baby Belly... Up close & personal...


Lucy Elizabeth's nursery theme...



Her crib and sleepy area..



Cuddly-soft blanket...



The light of her life...



and... the rug under her feet...

Friday, January 2, 2009

My beautiful wife, Rachel...

Here are some photos from Christmas Day 2008...







Belly Photo- Just starting to "pop."





Lucy is going to be an avid reader...